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  • The Things I’d Like To See

    Posted on April 15, 2021 10:47 am by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

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    Following on from Domming Whilst Nonbinary, there are some things I’d like to see that would make my time a lot easier and make me and other nonbinary fetishists feel more welcome.

        • More gender options at site sign up – It doesn’t need to be a huge long list, just give us a write in box.           Signing up to a site where the only options are male or female, or even worse male, female or trans like       trans is some mysterious third catch all gender, is honestly the worst. It’s 2021, do better.
          I tend to avoid social networks that don’t offer good gender options on sign up, but there are so many           industry sites I’ve had to sign up to that have poor options and really it needs to change.
        • Better pronoun options. I recently signed up to Smuttify, you can find my profile here. Over all I am really       liking the site, it’s very user friendly, very modern looking, it doesn’t have that “we made this on                     Geocities  in 2001 and never updated” look that a lot of fetish sites have. Gender options on sign up             weren’t terrible, however I discovered that the pronouns default to he/him if you pick a gender option             other than female. Consequently when I changed my profile picture, it appeared in my newsfeed as               “Mxtress Valleycat changed his profile picture”. Defaulting to they/them would make way more sense,            giving us a tick box option would be better, write in pronoun options would be ideal.
        • Inclusive language. This one is for sites, events, dungeons etc. Use inclusive language. I know this is           going to be a startling revelation, but inclusive language, makes people feel included. If you’re running a       femdom night, specify that you’re inclusive of all femdom, that you’re inclusive of trans people, people           outside of the binary, don’t rant that that somehow means “female domination is not allowed” because         that is not what that means at all.
    • Diversity in advertising. The era of slim white cis women on every piece of advertising is over. This isn’t  to say                   slim white cis women can’t ever be in the adverting, just that they shouldn’t be on every piece.  There are people of           every race, gender, sexuality, ability, legal age in the fetish scene, show them  celebrate them.

    Often it’s small changes, nothing here is hard work it’s just about being conscious of inclusivity really.


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  • 20171015 160021 - Domming Whilst Nonbinary Domming Whilst Nonbinary

    Posted on April 6, 2021 11:17 am by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

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    Gender is odd sometimes. I have known for a very long time that I am not female, no matter how many people told me otherwise. I knew I wasn’t male either, but for a long time I didn’t have the words to explain who or what I am. In ways I still don’t, nonbinary is an umbrella term for all of us who don’t fit into the gender binary.
    I often find people get a little bit confused when I say I am nonbinary because they expect someone thin and androgynous with a crew cut and a beige wardrobe and it’s fine to be that but that is not who I am. I wear skirts and dresses and I describe myself as femme, because I look and dress in ways that are associated with femininity. Sometimes people find that hard to understand, and that’s ok, you don’t have to understand you just have to respect. There’s an Eddie Izzard quote I’ve liked for years that about nails my relationship with cloth, “They’re not women’s clothes, they’re my clothes I bought them”, to me that’s a perfect explanation. Clothes don’t really have gender, we often associate them with gender, but they don’t inherently have that.

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    As long as you respect my identity, and use the correct pronouns (they /them) and tittle (Mxtress) then that is all that really matters to me, if you want to understand then that’s even better, allow me to point you at some resources and articles about gender and how it’s more wibbly wobbly that we’ve been lead to believe, but as long as I am shown my due respect, then that is what matters to me.


    This one is a few years old now, and I’d suggest you look up the updated version that delves into how the scientific understanding of biological sex has changed in recent years, this is still a pretty solid introduction though.

    I find often that parts of the scene are not built with nonbinary people in mind, which can be incredibly frustrating – it’s not like we’re a new concept, people who are not part of the binary have always existed – but more and more I am starting to see people cotton on.
    Sometimes I encounter odd little things though, I signed up to Smuttyfy recently (feel free to send me a friend request!) and was very happy to see there was an “other” option in the flip down menu for gender during sign up, but then found it pretty odd that my newsfeed said things like “Mxtressvalleycat updated his profile picture”, it seems a little odd to me to default to he/him pronouns when they/them exists (or an even better option that always fills me with good feelings for a site is a write in option or a flip down for pronouns!).

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    People who insist on using she/her pronouns for me or calling me a woman even after I have explained otherwise will not get far with me, if you cannot even show me the basic respect of getting that right, how am I supposed to think of you in any way as someone who could be a good submissive?
    If you have done this in the past, but want to apologise you can do so here by paying my $100 missgendering fee.


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  • Office Bitch Tights Tease 05 - How The Pandemic Changed Things For Me How The Pandemic Changed Things For Me

    Posted on March 23, 2021 8:56 pm by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

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    It’s a cliché introduction by now I suppose, but it’s a year now since the pandemic threw a spanner in all of my plans.
    I had such dreams last year of travelling around the country and shooting lots of content with other creators, I’d started making more collaborative clips in 2019 and had big plans to do more and then instead, got trapped at home.
    Oddly despite this, I think I’ve actually ended up making some of my best content this year strangely enough, instead of travelling I’ve become more experimental with POV clips, and as a result I’ve explored new fetishes and found new fans for it, to you I say thank you for the support and for helping me find fun new fetishes.

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    I have been quite lucky in that I haven’t had to completely work on my own the whole time, my husband eyemblacksheep has stepped up (or lain down in most cases) and we have made some pretty cool clips together, I have some up already on my stores and he has some on his over at Domestic Femdom
    We have also managed to pick up some equipment to make up for the fact we’ve been unable to visit dungeons in the past year, so while we don’t have room at home for a St Andrews Cross or a Fetters wheel, we do now own our own trampling board (which I have found that I really enjoy using!), a set of stocks and a green screen, the latter of which I am hoping will add another level to my Halloween clips this year.

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    I’ve found this year that the clips I have been commissioned to make have generally been a little longer than the ones ordered in previous years, and I feel this is probably because you are missing being able to go out and about as much as I do, and want more time to connect and indulge, and while I am happy to make shorter clips, I find that longer clips have been giving me more time to fully develop your ideas into film. I have also been finding more repeat commissioners, which has been great because I find the more I work with someone, the more I understand how they tick and each clips ends up being better than the last, I love to hear feedback on this by the way, not only for the ego boost but because it helps me develop future ideas, and it’s helpful to know what works well. You can find out how to order your own custom clip here.

    I’m not going to deny it has been a strange one, but this year has been surprisingly silver lined, I’m still excited to be vaccinated so that I can get out and collaborate with other people and enjoy fetish clubs again though.
    While you’re here you might like the following clips:

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    Cucked By Covid19 – A clip I did at the start of the pandemic inspired by people all getting stuck in different houses.

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    Sensual Scratching – In which I test out my new long stiletto nails on eyemblacksheep’s back!


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  • many vids promo - ManyVids Bank Holiday Discount ManyVids Bank Holiday Discount

    Posted on August 27, 2018 12:00 pm by admin Comment

    With it being a bank holiday in the UK, I decided to reward my ManyVids followers.  They were sent a 15% off discount code, which could be used on any of my clips all weekend.

    The code is Mxt7806 and is applicable until 23.59 (UK time) on Monday 27th August.

    Of course, ManyVids followers were informed of this on Friday night via one of my flyers and so they’ve had all weekend to enjoy discounts. You have under 12 hours.

    If you do follow me there and didn’t get the code… check your inbox – and click ‘flyers’. It may be other models have also sent discounts or news!

    However – I have been thinking of doing similar spot and limited time offers and other times.  Take this as as invitation to follow me on ManyVids (you don’t have to buy something to follow me, but it is appreciated and I’ve lots of great things there) or of course, join my Mailing List as I will also be sending out spot offers that way.  The next mailshot is due this coming weekend, so, be quick….


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  • 0225 jpi - April Clips Round Up April Clips Round Up

    Posted on May 1, 2018 5:00 pm by admin Comment

     

    April Round Up

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    I’ve again stuck to release clips (at least) weekly throughout April and so there are 5 new clips you can buy from your choice of platforms.   The below hyperlinks all link to my Clips4Sale store, but you can also find the clips in ManyVids or iWantClips – whatever your favourite platform is.

    I will start by doing a round up of some of the stand alone clips.

    3 Slaves for Punishment– I go into my dungeon and there are 1, 2, 3 ah ah ah, slaves just waiting to be punished.  Ooh. Decisions.
    Breaking in New Stable Boy – A scene with a new sub, our first solo clip together.  I ease him in gentle with a mix of sensation play, some grooming and… well.. the odd bit crop and flog.  We can’t have it too easy…
    Dungeon Tour (POV) – A literal POV clip as I take you on a guide through the dungeon. I strap you to implements – giving a few hits. I tease you with my feet before  leaning you over the spanking bench… a lot of fun!

    Cheerleader Trials

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    I also released another multi-part series.  Ready for the Spring is Cheerleader Try outs.27657199 10159935164880335 7124181304470450368 n 297x300 - April Clips Round Up
    In Part 1 – my slave has turned up for football try-outs, but I’ve changed my mind and he’s now doing cheerleader try outs!   Lots of humiliation and dancing for my pleasure.
    Part 2 – we know getting on the team isn’t just based on talent.  So, I invite him to try to prove his place on the team by worshipping my shoes and feet.
    Part 3 – this is actually being released on Thursday , so do keep an eye on my store – but I will let you in on what happens next… how else should my lovely cheerleader get on the team but by sucking cock….

    Enjoy.


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  • Kevin IMG 0092 e1523087858481 - Fuck the Diet January Fuck the Diet January

    Posted on January 7, 2018 10:15 am by admin Comment

    January is a time where everyone seems so miserable.
    Whether it’s going back to work, or embarking on New Years Resolutions giving up their favourite things. Going on diets. Dry January. Going to the gym.

    There’s none of that from me.

    Continue reading → Post ID 1356


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  • 20171202 190314 - Competition : 12 Slave Tasks of Christmas - starts Christmas Day Competition : 12 Slave Tasks of Christmas – starts Christmas Day

    Posted on December 22, 2017 6:00 pm by admin 2 Comments

    Hello everyone

    I wanted to tell you about a special festive game I am running this year.
    Entitled the 12 Slave Tasks of Christmas, each day between December 25th and January 5th I will be releasing a clip in my stores on iWantClips, and Clips4Sale

    In each clip I will take a dip into my Santa sack to pull out an item – and will use that item to create a task for you.

    Continue reading → Post ID 1356


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  • 20171202 190314 - Trailer For My Christmas Clips! Trailer For My Christmas Clips!

    Posted on December 8, 2017 2:46 pm by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

    I created a free trailer showcasing some of my Christmas clips.

    You can view this below.

    click here to visit my store

    Enjoy my trailer!

     


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  • 20171015 160021 - Ignoring Useless Foot Rest, Kiss My Fat Non-Binary Arse, Clean My Dirty Feet and Chasity To Work Ignoring Useless Foot Rest, Kiss My Fat Non-Binary Arse, Clean My Dirty Feet and Chasity To Work

    Posted on November 21, 2017 10:50 am by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

     

    Hello everyone, I’ve been very busy recently producing and releasing new clips. I would like to give you all a little round up of some of the recent ones I’ve released…. Continue reading → Post ID 1356


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  • IMG 5187 - Every Day Is Halloween Every Day Is Halloween

    Posted on November 4, 2017 6:22 pm by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

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    Halloween is one of my favourite times of the year.

    Whilst it has been and gone, but never fear it will come again. Until then you can still enjoy the clips I filmed for this Halloween.

    This year I filmed four clips and had one photoset taken (from which the above photo comes). The videos can now also be bought bundled together with a very special extra clip (everybody say “Oooh!”).

    Continue reading → Post ID 1356


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