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  • 20171015 160021 - Domming Whilst Nonbinary Domming Whilst Nonbinary

    Posted on April 6, 2021 11:17 am by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

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    Gender is odd sometimes. I have known for a very long time that I am not female, no matter how many people told me otherwise. I knew I wasn’t male either, but for a long time I didn’t have the words to explain who or what I am. In ways I still don’t, nonbinary is an umbrella term for all of us who don’t fit into the gender binary.
    I often find people get a little bit confused when I say I am nonbinary because they expect someone thin and androgynous with a crew cut and a beige wardrobe and it’s fine to be that but that is not who I am. I wear skirts and dresses and I describe myself as femme, because I look and dress in ways that are associated with femininity. Sometimes people find that hard to understand, and that’s ok, you don’t have to understand you just have to respect. There’s an Eddie Izzard quote I’ve liked for years that about nails my relationship with cloth, “They’re not women’s clothes, they’re my clothes I bought them”, to me that’s a perfect explanation. Clothes don’t really have gender, we often associate them with gender, but they don’t inherently have that.

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    As long as you respect my identity, and use the correct pronouns (they /them) and tittle (Mxtress) then that is all that really matters to me, if you want to understand then that’s even better, allow me to point you at some resources and articles about gender and how it’s more wibbly wobbly that we’ve been lead to believe, but as long as I am shown my due respect, then that is what matters to me.


    This one is a few years old now, and I’d suggest you look up the updated version that delves into how the scientific understanding of biological sex has changed in recent years, this is still a pretty solid introduction though.

    I find often that parts of the scene are not built with nonbinary people in mind, which can be incredibly frustrating – it’s not like we’re a new concept, people who are not part of the binary have always existed – but more and more I am starting to see people cotton on.
    Sometimes I encounter odd little things though, I signed up to Smuttyfy recently (feel free to send me a friend request!) and was very happy to see there was an “other” option in the flip down menu for gender during sign up, but then found it pretty odd that my newsfeed said things like “Mxtressvalleycat updated his profile picture”, it seems a little odd to me to default to he/him pronouns when they/them exists (or an even better option that always fills me with good feelings for a site is a write in option or a flip down for pronouns!).

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    People who insist on using she/her pronouns for me or calling me a woman even after I have explained otherwise will not get far with me, if you cannot even show me the basic respect of getting that right, how am I supposed to think of you in any way as someone who could be a good submissive?
    If you have done this in the past, but want to apologise you can do so here by paying my $100 missgendering fee.


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  • tarot4 - Kinky Tarot Reading - Hallowe'en Season Special. Kinky Tarot Reading – Hallowe’en Season Special.

    Posted on September 7, 2018 6:14 pm by admin Comment

     

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    Shuffle the decks – what does the future have in store for you?

    Exciting news everybody.   I recently found my tarot cards.  These are something I learned to read many years ago.  I did a little reading for a clip which will be released in October and the magic is still there.

    Upon thinking about this, as we are approaching Hallowe’en season, I decided that for a short period of time I would offer Kinky Tarot Reading.

    Up until October 31st you will be able to get a reading from me for just £5 ($6.50). For this, I will do you a 3 card reading, dictating your kinky past, present and future.  I will make this into a short video and send it to you, personalised, for your eyes only.

    If I continue to offer this beyond October it will not be so cheap – so if you’re interested; take advantage now!

    To order – you can go to my ManyVids store – or you can use the tribute buttons to the right of your screen.   Once the purchase is made, do feel free to drop me a line about your order.  Other payment methods are available.

    Please note – the reading is for entertainment purposes only.

     


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  • 002 - Clips4Sale Interview Clips4Sale Interview

    Posted on August 25, 2018 7:23 am by admin Comment

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    I was recently interviewed for Clips4Sale.   It was really nice to be contacted by them about a little chat – about my store, my fetishes and my interests.

    You can read the interview here.

    I talk about some of my fetishes and ambitions – it was fun to do.

    So, if you’re curious about what I’m into – what I’d like to do, some of my spare time – and some of my opinions – well – there you go 🙂

    You can also visit my store here.


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  • 29251116 10160052652610043 121528740 o - Meet Your New Boss : Free Trailer Meet Your New Boss : Free Trailer

    Posted on May 20, 2018 11:11 am by admin Comment

     

    Back in March I put out a series of videos entitled ‘Meet Your New Boss’.  I’m pleased to say these have been very popular, there are plans to continue the series.

    The set up was a 4 part series (2 POV, 2 with slave) where you (and co-workers) return to work to find I am your new boss. And… it’s now a Femme-Led work place, there’s going to be some changes…

    I’ve put together a trailer/preview for the 4 existing clips. You can enjoy some (very) selected highlights and you can see what you’re missing.  You can view that below.

    The clips can be purchased from my store – this link should automatically filter to them – or click here for full store.

    Trailer

     


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  • 20161114 093000 e1503935981415 - A Taste of Things to Come A Taste of Things to Come

    Posted on January 2, 2018 11:01 pm by admin Comment

    Hello, Happy New Year.

    I hope you have all had fun over the festive break.   Whilst I’ve had a wonderful and relaxing time, I have had some of my subs and helpers working away for me – and there’s a whole bunch of exciting news to come very soon.

    Read on…

    Continue reading → Post ID 1345


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  • 20171202 190314 - Trailer For My Christmas Clips! Trailer For My Christmas Clips!

    Posted on December 8, 2017 2:46 pm by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

    I created a free trailer showcasing some of my Christmas clips.

    You can view this below.

    click here to visit my store

    Enjoy my trailer!

     


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  • 20171015 160021 - Ignoring Useless Foot Rest, Kiss My Fat Non-Binary Arse, Clean My Dirty Feet and Chasity To Work Ignoring Useless Foot Rest, Kiss My Fat Non-Binary Arse, Clean My Dirty Feet and Chasity To Work

    Posted on November 21, 2017 10:50 am by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

     

    Hello everyone, I’ve been very busy recently producing and releasing new clips. I would like to give you all a little round up of some of the recent ones I’ve released…. Continue reading → Post ID 1345


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  • IMG 5187 - Every Day Is Halloween Every Day Is Halloween

    Posted on November 4, 2017 6:22 pm by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

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    Halloween is one of my favourite times of the year.

    Whilst it has been and gone, but never fear it will come again. Until then you can still enjoy the clips I filmed for this Halloween.

    This year I filmed four clips and had one photoset taken (from which the above photo comes). The videos can now also be bought bundled together with a very special extra clip (everybody say “Oooh!”).

    Continue reading → Post ID 1345


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  • corset - Tormenting My Slave With Electrics Tormenting My Slave With Electrics

    Posted on October 5, 2017 8:51 pm by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

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    In this weeks video, also filmed at Worcester’s Pain Palace Studios you get to see the fun I had with eyemblacksheep and a real antique, Violet Wand.

    I love electroplay, it’s one of my favourites. I love the look of the sparks, the sound of crackling.  With Violet Wands in particular I love the smell of ozone they leave lingering for a while afterwards.  So of course when I spotted the wooden box beside the medical bed,  I knew I had to look!

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  • 20161114 093000 e1503935981415 - Welcome to my new site Welcome to my new site

    Posted on August 28, 2017 4:17 pm by Mxtress Valleycat Comment

     

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    The first post on my new website. I hope you like my site.

    You can find out more about me, you can view my clips. T here’s also links to my profiles so you can contact me.

    In future I will be adding the facilities to order custom clips, as well as details of events I will be attending (I’m very active in the real world) and details of any other services I offer.

    I’ve got quite a few clips up already, I have enjoyed filming these very much. There are a few feet clips, some chastity and some older food crush clips.
    In coming weeks there’ll be more, both POVs and clips with a slave.
    I hope you enjoy watching them as much as I’ve enjoyed making them.

    In the meantime, you can catch me via Adultwork or iWantClips if you wish to arrange a chat – or feel free to follow me on Twitter.

    Until next time,

    Mxtress Valleycat

     


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