Nail fetishes were another thing I fell into by accident. It seems like a lot of my favourite things are the result of accidents, random chance and the planets aligning. I used to be a nail biter, it was a habit I’d developed over years for dealing with anxiety and nerves, and so it was a very hard habit to break.
Someone suggested I should try acrylics, as they’re harder to break than natural nails and it would give my real nails a chance to finally grow underneath. Finally having pretty nails was addictive, and I kept it up even when the tips grew out and for a long time I had acrylic overlays, although now I use polygel. The length is all natural and all mine but the polygel serves as a strengthening coat to protect them and stop absent minded chewing.read more
Following on from Domming Whilst Nonbinary, there are some things I’d like to see that would make my time a lot easier and make me and other nonbinary fetishists feel more welcome.
More gender options at site sign up – It doesn’t need to be a huge long list, just give us a write in box. Signing up to a site where the only options are male or female, or even worse male, female or trans like trans is some mysterious third catch all gender, is honestly the worst. It’s 2021, do better. I tend to avoid social networks that don’t offer good gender options on sign up, but there are so many industry sites I’ve had to sign up to that have poor options and really it needs to change.
Better pronoun options. I recently signed up to Smuttify, you can find my profile here. Over all I am really liking the site, it’s very user friendly, very modern looking, it doesn’t have that “we made this on Geocities in 2001 and never updated” look that a lot of fetish sites have. Gender options on sign up weren’t terrible, however I discovered that the pronouns default to he/him if you pick a gender option other than female. Consequently when I changed my profile picture, it appeared in my newsfeed as “Mxtress Valleycat changed his profile picture”. Defaulting to they/them would make way more sense, giving us a tick box option would be better, write in pronoun options would be ideal.
Inclusive language. This one is for sites, events, dungeons etc. Use inclusive language. I know this is going to be a startling revelation, but inclusive language, makes people feel included. If you’re running a femdom night, specify that you’re inclusive of all femdom, that you’re inclusive of trans people, people outside of the binary, don’t rant that that somehow means “female domination is not allowed” because that is not what that means at all.
Gender is odd sometimes. I have known for a very long time that I am not female, no matter how many people told me otherwise. I knew I wasn’t male either, but for a long time I didn’t have the words to explain who or what I am. In ways I still don’t, nonbinary is an umbrella term for all of us who don’t fit into the gender binary. I often find people get a little bit confused when I say I am nonbinary because they expect someone thin and androgynous with a crew cut and a beige wardrobe and it’s fine to be that but that is not who I am. I wear skirts and dresses and I describe myself as femme, because I look and dress in ways that are associated with femininity. Sometimes people find that hard to understand, and that’s ok, you don’t have to understand you just have to respect. There’s an Eddie Izzard quote I’ve liked for years that about nails my relationship with cloth, “They’re not women’s clothes, they’re my clothes I bought them”, to me that’s a perfect explanation. Clothes don’t really have gender, we often associate them with gender, but they don’t inherently have that.read more
You know it’s really funny, but I used to hate my feet. You may have noticed but I have quite big feet, I wear a UK 8 / EU 42 / US 10 and it used to be quite hard to get pretty shoes that I liked in my size, I still fairly regularly end up disappointed to find that a shoe line I like ends at the size below mine, but it is a little easier than it used to be thankfully. I thought my feet being too big for pretty shoes meant that they were too big to be pretty, and I started to perceive my feet as ugly. I hid them in trainers and very rarely wore sandals or went barefoot, the thought of someone touching them freaked me out.read more
It’s a cliché introduction by now I suppose, but it’s a year now since the pandemic threw a spanner in all of my plans. I had such dreams last year of travelling around the country and shooting lots of content with other creators, I’d started making more collaborative clips in 2019 and had big plans to do more and then instead, got trapped at home. Oddly despite this, I think I’ve actually ended up making some of my best content this year strangely enough, instead of travelling I’ve become more experimental with POV clips, and as a result I’ve explored new fetishes and found new fans for it, to you I say thank you for the support and for helping me find fun new fetishes.read more
This year has been a strange one for a lot of us, all of our plans have gone to pot so to speak and nothing has quite gone as planned. Hopefully things will start to look up soon, but personally I (and by default you) am still looking forward to spooky season. Halloween is my most favourite time of the year, I find it a very fun time but also a very inspiring time and as those of you who have followed me for a while will know over October I post one clip every single day for the whole month! I have plenty of tricks and treats in store for you this year and I am so excited to share them. Below are a few stills I have picked out from upcoming clips:
You’ve been spending time looking through social media looking for photos of pretty Goths to masturbate over, but you filthy perv, these aren’t people who consented! But, I’ve caught you – and I’m going to punish you.
Big news everyone. February 18th I’m going to be part of a special day of Domination with my good friend Princess Dahlia This will take place in her premises in Hartlepool.
We will be bringing together our joint forces, it’s an exciting (and rare!) opportunity to serve two big beautiful Goddesses.
We will consider a range of fetishes and interested including, but not limited to; foot worship, corporal punishment, tease and denial, shoe/boot worship, tickling, wax play, CBT, bondage….
Because this a day we have planned together, we are doing this at a special tribute rate. Please get in touch for more information. A minimum booking of 1 hour is required for this and a deposit is essential.
Clips4Sale have a site-wide initiative at the moment which means using their referral code you can receive 10% off your clip order when using the advanced search.
I really like the advanced search – it’s a much easier way to find the type of content you want.
The offer runs until April 20th and is applicable to any store.
To make your life easier – I’ve embedded the referral code into my domain – so all you have to do is visit femmedom.club
C4S has had many initiatives for store owners, but this one is solely for those buying clips – what I get out of it is more people get to enjoy my clips a little cheaper – so, if you’ve sat on the fence or not been able to afford some – now is you chance.
I have LOTS of new content and more coming VERY soon – I’m currently uploading 3 clips per week across a number of themes. Coming very soon is some double-domme clips and some more with different subs, as well as POVs.
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